Does LOVE retain for lifelong? - Concept of ORANGE movie as my writing

Does LOVE retain for lifelong? This is a genuine question which strike every mind at some point of time in Life. There would be no individual on earth without contradicting feelings on the same thing or same person which/who exist for quite good time together with them. The moment when we got inspired by some characters or qualities or features of some persons/things which we come across, we start trying to learn and explore more and more about them. This results in interacting more with that person or use that thing more frequently not only just for learning about them but also to know how much they learn about you in turn. And this learning period will definitely be ever exciting and ever interesting phase. In this period, we find more and more qualities we like besides coming to know few qualities which we dislike. But still, in this phase we concentrate only on the qualities we like and doesn't bother much of the few qualities we dislike. So, we enjoy the relationship without any conflicts. At some point of time, even we think that they are our world and don't care much about the things surrounding. This may lead to something we name called Love or else a Close Friendship. Love exist in every relationship (connectivity) of human life and Friendship is one among such human relationships. There is a thin margin differentiating between the two which I would like to discuss in later post.

As and when the relationship grow and continue for quite long time, we again start thinking about ourselves and our interests and we lose interest on their regular qualities which we liked in them and slowly our concentration diverts on their negative side also. And we would start thinking about the sacrifices we have done to maintain a relationship with them. From this point of time we start showing drastic changes in our expressions. In this phase we feel free to express negative expressions i.e. our anger, frustration, dislike, etc.  immediately when we feel them. This is because of our bond with the person which grew stronger and we gain confidence in freedom of expression and thought. This is the state at which we feel to express and share anything to them truly without hiding.  But we human beings have different feelings embedded in us, like caring, possessiveness, hate, like, love, secure, frustration, etc. So, in this phase where the person take the freedom to express, if any of our negative feelings i.e. possessiveness, dislike, frustration, etc. are enhanced, definitely a conflict rises and sometimes it may even lead to situation of losing the relationship. This is the point at which we start thinking why we start hating a person whom we are ever interested in upto now, whose most of the qualities we liked upto now.........A self analysis starts and there comes the question Does LOVE retain for lifelong?

My answer for this is absolutely YES. Hating someone with whom you already built a relationship is something virtual. The hidden fact behind would be you are loving it more, but exhibiting it with a negative expressions like possessiveness, anger, frustration, etc. In such situations instead of exhibiting the negative expressions on each other, if we try to love/like and care each other much more, our relation grows much stronger, sweeter and with everlasting love and happiness.

Ice Cream in Banana Leaf makes more appetizing

This is just to convey concept of Ice Cream in Banana Leaf. The image is not refined. Please bear the quality.

A card to fiancé to express her expected future with him

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A letter conveying a friend how frequent you are in his/her thoughts

Dearest,

I don't know what to write

But still......

I wanna write to you something;

But don't know what thing;

and thus don't have anything;

so.... I end up in writing nothing 

This letter seems to be have no content at all. But that conveys a lot if you read by heart.

FRIEND - a gifted relation to every human - Scene 1

As usual Sanjana is waiting in the parking area of her Friend's appartments. She always values the time she spent with her friend daily. But at the same time she do not want family time of either of them to be consumed for this. Sanjana do not want anyone to face the problem she has from her spouse. So, she always go to her office along with her friend Sahithi to utilize that time to spend with her. Even though Sanjana's office is on the way to Sahithi's office, she get down at her friends's office and then again come back to her office. That precious she consider the time with her friend. This seems strange to many; and many others think this as a foolish thing done by jobless people. But amidst of all her office work, family responsibilities, and creative writing hobby, Sanjana try to maintain this everyday and cover all of them without fail. Each moment she spend is well planned to be heartfully happy. Sanjana's friend circle constitute people related to various fields. Most of them are born artists and one such friend of her is Sahithi.

It is the day before the Diwali. There is a bay decoration competition in Sahithi's office. Sahithi is a determined person always aiming at the winning part in life, say it a game or career. That is why she serves as a good lead in her company. So, Sahithi want to be a winner this time also. For that she set her mind to work from the day before. After she came downstairs, both exchanged smiles as usual and got into Sahithi's car. Sanjana as usual started blabbering some unrelated topics and cracking some meaningless jokes. But Sahithi's mind is thinking about the competition. Sanjana realized after some time and maintained silence. She felt like herself as if Dr.Watson sitting beside Mr.Sherlock Holmes :). Sanjana is a reserved person to outsiders and open up and talk freely only with very close ones. She is a character who is more formal to new people and more informal to her closed ones. So, she will be fun and ease going and helpful to her close friends, but bit difficult and boring to friends/relations of her friends.

Sanjana always say that both of them are unlike minds and hence as unlike polls, they attracted. She believe in the theory that unlike poles attract and like poles repel. But Sahithi disagree with Sanjana's theory. She says that both minds think alike and that is why they became friends. No one new how it happens, but few relations build without knowledge of ourselves. Such a wonderful relation is friendship.

Sanjana as usual got down at Sahithi's office and headed in the direction opposite to her office. Sahithi called her back and asked, why is she going in that direction. Then Sanjana told that she do not have office that day and came just for Sahithi. This surprised Sahithi a lot. Sanjana smiled and replied, "when you finish your work, just give me a call." and left. Sanjana went to a nearby shopping mall, entered a cafe and started working in her laptop. After an hour or so, Sahithi called and came to pick her. When Sanjana got into car, Sahithi asked whether she would accompany her to shopping. Sanjana immediately told yes excitingly. But the next moment Sanjana is surprised when she told that they are going with Sahithi's team members for purchasing decorative items for bay decoration. Sahithi want to untilise this shopping time to be with Sanjana. That is why she called Sanjana even though her team is going to be along. Both of them picked Sahithi's team members at Sanjana's office and left for shopping. Though with colleagues, Sahithi prefer Sanjan to sit beside her in front seat while driving. Sanjana showed some photos in her cell which she took in shopping mall where each shop is decorated with Diwali theme. She took those snaps for Sahithi only, so that it may be useful for her bay decoration tomorrow. This shows the level of responsiblity Sanjana shows towards Sahithi.

After shopping, they dropped the team members at office and started to home. Both are sitting silent in the car. After 5 minutes, Sanjana can't tolerate the silence and asked, "What are you thinking about, dear...." Sahithi replied that she is thinking about tomorrow's competition. She started talking about the colour combinations, lenths of decorative cloth, flowers arrangements, etc. Her creative brain is working like a designing software visualizing the expected layout of her bay tomorrow. Sahithi's commitment inspired Sanjana a lot. She again began to feel like Watson and Holmes. She smiled to herself and listened to her friend in silence. Once they reached Sahithi's appartment, Sanjana got down and left to her home in an auto.

Few people become so close that we cannot live without thinking about them, without feeling responsible for them, without feeling to have beside them and without feeling to talk to them.......and we call them as our FRIENDS :)

Score killer confidence - An inspiring article in Yahoo News

           When I passed through each line of the article @ http://in.news.yahoo.com/248/20100530/1582/tnl-score-killer-confidence.html I felt my brain applying the facts in real life's of myself and my friends around. The application of law of cause and effect of physics is very well explicit in the article. Morning, I and Sanjana went to Barista on the way to office, another favorite place of our times.  I showed the article to Sanjana my dearest friend as u all already know. She read the article and gave a half smile at me. These days I am sometimes getting angry at Sanjana's expressions if she doesn't put them in words explicitly of what do she really mean. I stopped eating and leaned back in chair with a deep sigh "uhhh....". Sanjan understood that I want her to tell the reason for half smile and her remark on the article. She said, "Sorry Dear, I know u are much bothered about my inner feelings and caring me so much. Fine, when I read this article I felt that my kids morning kiss and smile which I interact every morning have score killer confidence for me and only source for me to exist on this earth still. Her smile induces the strength in me, when I found no reason to exist on this earth after marraige......." She paused,  browsing through the feelings in her mind and then continued to explain, "every day morning when I interact with my kid, that day will definitely be a successful one in my work. Inspite of the distress I am dipped in after marraige, I am able to converse in a clear confident tone to colleagues and higher officials in meetings and other discussions. Am able to concentrate well in the work and complete successfully. This makes me win applause from the team and higher officials which is further boosting my confidence levels. These energy levels make me feel that there is some reason that I am still living cos I am able to atleast do the work of my interest and has been successful in it. " I appreciated her "Great! go ahead"

Every person in his/her life encounters pitfalls from the key source in their life and they seek for an alternate source to exist without thinking of  them. But people who are more determined only can maintain such stable brain set up until end. Otherwise they loose their life along with loss of hope. Hope Sanjana has a stable brain set up until a decent ending or until her life re-bounces to a happy married life.

Moulding Child's Manners - Parent's most challenging task, cos if you do not mould correctly, its very difficult to mend later

I am very surprised to see my 10 months old kid suddenly raising her hand and started "aaaaaaaa.......aaaaaa......." in a rythmic tone. She is doing this very frequently now a days. During pregnancey, I used to hear continuously to the melodious music, from the CD my doctor gave me. And after her birth, i used to keep the same like music running throughout the day. Even I used to sing the music notes and hum them showing the thaalams with hand to my daughter. After few months she started humming the same after me when I do it. Atleast she used to try to do it. I am very much surprised seeing that. Then now she started humming herself, though it doesn't come correctly. She suddenly raises her hand and wave it as if doing thaalaas and say "aaaa.....aaa....". I am not aware whether all kids do it at this age or not, but the style she does it is really make me wonder how quick these children are learning things now a days. Also she gives me high five which I used to do with her myself right frm her 2nd month. She gives thank you which her grandfather used to do from the start. She does the bajan which her great grandma thought her by clapping hands.

I used to say "NO" nodding by head whenever she touches or does anything she shouldn't touch or do. Now, she nods her head to convey that she doesn't want to do anything. She handles anything in her hand when asked and receives thank you from us. If we ask to bring any object which is near to her, she herself pick it and give it to us. 

Whatever we do, either good or bad, children try to imitate us and learn from us. Such an easily mendable, sensitive minds they have. I realised that I need to be more careful from now. I felt in my mind that bringing up children is also a challenging task. Hope that I will be successfully completing that task. But sometimes I doubt asking myself "Can I???" cos I myself am bit kiddish.....hahaa.... ;)

I think this is the most challenging task for every parent cos if you do not mould anything correctly, its very difficult to mend it later(Learnt from Life - Siri :) Cheerzzz...). Ofcourse, these words apply to anything in our life. This is only a small thought that is bothering in my mind currently whenever I observe new changes in my child. There are many situations/examples I have observed in different phases of lives of people around me that satisfy these words. Soon I will present them in short stories with a work around.