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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Does LOVE retain for lifelong? - Concept of ORANGE movie as my writing

Does LOVE retain for lifelong? This is a genuine question which strike every mind at some point of time in Life. There would be no individual on earth without contradicting feelings on the same thing or same person which/who exist for quite good time together with them. The moment when we got inspired by some characters or qualities or features of some persons/things which we come across, we start trying to learn and explore more and more about them. This results in interacting more with that person or use that thing more frequently not only just for learning about them but also to know how much they learn about you in turn. And this learning period will definitely be ever exciting and ever interesting phase. In this period, we find more and more qualities we like besides coming to know few qualities which we dislike. But still, in this phase we concentrate only on the qualities we like and doesn't bother much of the few qualities we dislike. So, we enjoy the relationship without any conflicts. At some point of time, even we think that they are our world and don't care much about the things surrounding. This may lead to something we name called Love or else a Close Friendship. Love exist in every relationship (connectivity) of human life and Friendship is one among such human relationships. There is a thin margin differentiating between the two which I would like to discuss in later post.

As and when the relationship grow and continue for quite long time, we again start thinking about ourselves and our interests and we lose interest on their regular qualities which we liked in them and slowly our concentration diverts on their negative side also. And we would start thinking about the sacrifices we have done to maintain a relationship with them. From this point of time we start showing drastic changes in our expressions. In this phase we feel free to express negative expressions i.e. our anger, frustration, dislike, etc.  immediately when we feel them. This is because of our bond with the person which grew stronger and we gain confidence in freedom of expression and thought. This is the state at which we feel to express and share anything to them truly without hiding.  But we human beings have different feelings embedded in us, like caring, possessiveness, hate, like, love, secure, frustration, etc. So, in this phase where the person take the freedom to express, if any of our negative feelings i.e. possessiveness, dislike, frustration, etc. are enhanced, definitely a conflict rises and sometimes it may even lead to situation of losing the relationship. This is the point at which we start thinking why we start hating a person whom we are ever interested in upto now, whose most of the qualities we liked upto now.........A self analysis starts and there comes the question Does LOVE retain for lifelong?

My answer for this is absolutely YES. Hating someone with whom you already built a relationship is something virtual. The hidden fact behind would be you are loving it more, but exhibiting it with a negative expressions like possessiveness, anger, frustration, etc. In such situations instead of exhibiting the negative expressions on each other, if we try to love/like and care each other much more, our relation grows much stronger, sweeter and with everlasting love and happiness.
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